So I'm a first time mom and this might be a stupid question. But my boyfriend has yet to go to a doctor appointment with me because he's very busy with work and I didn't really find it necessary to make him take off work. I now have my anatomy scan coming up the end of September and they're not doing it at my obgyn office. So I'm wondering is this something he will be able to go to? Is this when most people find the gender out with their SO? I would just like him to be there to find out the gender.