What do I say to him??!

Question

I've already posted this but I'm still at a loss and need more advice 
So it's the night after our one year anniversary. We go out with some friends who end up crashing at our place - two in the spare room and one in our bed with us. My SO volenteers to sleep in the middle and strips off completely naked. I ask him to put in boxers because it's weird and he refuses, claiming it's his house he can wear what he likes. It's a big bed, there's lots of room, it feels like he's miles away from me. He doesn't cuddle me. He has his back to me and... He has a raging hard on. He's got a boner from laying next to another girl. All day I've been feeling so strange I don't know what to think tbh. How would you feel?

Some info that may be relevant: before tonight he never wanted to hang out with her as he thought she was fat, ugly and annoying. he is desperate to have a threesome and asked me earlier that night if he could ask her to have one with us. (We've been close to having one with someone else before but I've changed my mind)

What do I say to him?!!?

INPORTANT- I forgot to mention... We have another spare double bed. And a perfectly comfortable, large couch.

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I mean it's partially on you that you let another girl sleep in your bed with your NAKED man knowing full well there are other beds. I'm not defending him, but you're at fault too for the way you feel. But honestly just talk to him that's be the best thing to do

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Um I'd tell him bye Felicia

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Why was she in your bed if there was other places for her to sleep?

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I would have flipped it at my partner and would have told the other girl to sleep on the couch, maybe the other girl was so dam awkward aswel and didn't want to say anything or froze up from awkwardness ?

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I would be curious as if why she didn't sleep anywhere else. How dare he disrespect you like regardless of the subject of there being a threesome. In my opinion I think you should let him know that you're affected by his action and ask for reason besides the topic of the threesome. Which is no excuse for his actions. I hope I helped.

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He probably really wanted to have the threesome cuz he saw a chance since there were two girls in the bed. If you guys had talked about it. He was just like fuck it, let's see if it happens.

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It's a bit dickish of him (excuse my French). But for some reason every guy wants a threesome- mine tried to ask me to have one with my best friend 😂 so I ignored him for like a day or two until he bought me chocolate and said he was sorry and he only wanted me. 
You could have a word with the girl and tell her to keep her distance a bit, but that might cause some fights. So I suggest bringing it up with your boyfriend, because if you don't feel comfortable with what he's doing then he needs to know and should be understanding of that. If he tries to kick up a fight with you stay calm. And if he decides to be a dickbiscuit then just ignore him for a few days 💕

What do I say to him??!

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