Giving blowjobs...?

Question

So my boyfriend and I have been together for a couple months now and we've been extremely happy and would do just about anything for him. Except he keeps asking for a blowjob and I just can't wrap my mind about why I don't want to. There is no part of me that even remotely wants to have his dick in my mouth at all. I'm a virgin, he knew that when we got together and it's not like I'm adverse to sex. I give him handjobs all the time and I'm totally down to have sex, I just can't wrap my mind around giving him head. My boyfriends understanding but I know he wants one badly.  I don't know why exactly I don't want, I just don't want to. Has anyone else experienced this and if so what did you do?

Answer

The number one thing that's urgent in a relationship is communication. Let him know how you feel about it. Yeah there will be people who say well at least try first before you judge it but if it's something you're aren't interested in just tell him. And tell him it's not that you aren't attracted to him it's just something you aren't interested in. I personally believe sex shouldn't be tic for tac and you can definitely please you partner in other ways. No one should make you feel like you have to do something you don't want to do. A relationship is about compromising to work around the bad/ problems. And no I'm not narrowminded but this goes for both men and women.  :D I hope this helps and make you feel better.

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I was like that at one point and was also a virgin when I met my current boyfriend. At first I just spit on my hand and then gave him a handjob, but eventually I thought "he does so much for me, I'll just try giving him a blowjob". He literally had to just talk me into getting down on my knees, but once I did it was no big deal! I mean it was weird but now I'm like an expert 😂 just take your time and hope that he keeps being as understanding and patient as he is now. Good luck! 💘

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I'm the same way! I have no motivation to try it either. Idk the thought of his dick being anywhere close to my mouth is not appealing to me 😂😂 don't feel as if you should or have to try it. Just tell him you don't want to. And if he pressures you or tries to talk you into it or doesn't understand or gets mad just ditch him. Real men understand.

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I honestly thought the same thing, and one day I just tried it and it wasn't as bad as I thought

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