Fiance Rant/Help?

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So me and my fiance (he's 25 I'm 18) have been together 7 months. I think he's rushing the relationship and I try to tell him to take it easy. He won't listen. Him and I argue almost daily and he blames it on me so I tell him I'm leaving him, and He literally pins me to the floor and forces me to stay. We live at his friends house and a lot of my things are there. I want to leave but he won't let me and I don't have a car or licence and I don't want to put him in jail..  What options do I have? Please help me

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You need to get out at all costs call the police they can force him to step aside and let you pack and leave

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Leave the things and move on. That kind of behavior always seems to escalate. It's just not worth the risk. Or slowly smuggle some of the really important stuff out. 
Personally I would cut and run. Had to do that in 2007. I literally lost everything I owned besides a few trash bags of clothes.

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get help! this sounds like an abusive relationship, whether he means to be abusive or not. talk to your parents, school guidance counsellors, etc. talk to someone! you deserve better and you have your whole life to meet better!

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Have someone in your family come pick you up. Or even a friend. You can leave your stuff there temporarily and have someone take you back to get it when things calm down. Once you leave, never go back alone. If push comes to shove, and you don't have anything really important at his place, leave it and replace it. Leave and don't ever go back. That's scary if he's pinning you down when you want to leave. You never know what could happen.

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You definitely need to get out of that one. That's not going to get much better from there unless he gets professional help.

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Definitely get help. You might need a restraining order which would definitely involve police!

You both are in two VERY different parts of life right now. He's ready to settle down and start a family, and you aren't. That won't work well, and it also sounds like he's being abusive. Get out of there girl!

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If you're super desperate you could go to the police. It doesn't necessarily have to put him in jail if you don't want to press chargers. But maybe the cops could help you get out of that situation. Or your parents maybe ?

Fiance Rant/Help?

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