Messed up system

It's so screwed up that a 25 yr old who has two kids that she doesn't even see, and who had major health complications during the last pregnancy, 2 misscarriages in the last year, who has decided she wants her tubes tied gets TURNED AWAY because doctors think she will regret the decision. Some of those same people are against abortion, yet when someone wants to do the responsible thing, they aren't "allowed" to. I would understand if she had no kids, but come on!! This is a family member of mine by the way. She can't afford the kids she has (and doesn't see) but her current insurance would cover a sterilization. Smh.