How do you have a g-spot orgasm!?

Jesus H. Christ! I don't know what to dooooooo! I just want to have one! My man feels bad because he can't give me one. I do know that your brain and your relaxation has to be hand n hand with each other. Well :(...... I WANT ONE! I've tried! What do I do laaaaaaawd what do I do!? 😭😭😭