Should I stay??

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So my boyfriend of 6 months is my life. He is my everything. I give him everything I have and we love each other sooo much. But two days ago he cheated on me and lied straight to my face. He said it was in the heat of the moment and he'll never do it again. The thing is though, he did in in MY house on MY bed. He said he only did it because he thought I cheated on him but I would never hurt him like that. I love him so much and wanna work things out with him so I made a bunch of new rules but I'm so scared he'll do it again. What should I do??? He keeps apologizing and saying he can't imagine life without me but he betrayed my trust and broke my heart.. I'm so confused. (P.s. sorry for the book!)

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Dang girl. If he loves you too soooooooo much.. then he wouldn't have done that to begin with. He obviously has no respect for you or your relationship so you're the one that needs to have the respect for yourself and dump him. It may seem like the end of the world right now, but you'll find someone eventually who would never put you in this situation to begin with. Good luck.

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Not to be brutally honest or anything but, Leave. "In the heat of the moment.." There shouldn't even be a moment, there shouldn't even be heat. At your house too? Um that's totally sick....he might love you and he might be apologizing but he would have to be 116% of an idiot to not know he would hurt you, you want to be with someone who would even go near the thought of hurting you that bad, mistake or not. And what is a perfect relationship without trust? You deserve better, you seem sweet and you could find so much more and better love in the world. I know it hurts, but have enough self respect to walk out. Make him miss you.

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I've been cheated on before and it's because he though I was fooling  around with other guys (which basically were family members who's names he'd seen on my phone) and thought that have him a reason to cheat and I knew he'd only say that I'd he were the one cheating. Later come to find out he was and I dumped him on the spot with no regrets. So dump that boy because he is only trying to justify his actions by pinning them on you.

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Leave him! #1. The fact that he tried to turn around HIS bad choice and blame it on you... Shows he is emotionally abusive and does not love you. #2. He knew exactly where he was and what he was doing wen he cheated on you... "Heat of the moment" does not exist. #3. You made rules because you know he isn't trustworthy. Honey, you deserve better. You wouldn't have made this post if you didn't think so too. There are real men who will love you and only you. Get out now before you get hurt even more. 6 months and he already cheated.... Don't invest another second of your life with him. He's sorry he got caught. Leave him now.

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Honestly if he hadn't just assumed you cheated on him I'd say probably try and fix things but being with someone who just assumed things and doesn't ask questions isn't good.

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No! No! No! Cheaters are always be a cheater. He is obviously making it an excuses. He want you to stay because that other girl he had sex is not into him and hell be alone. Obviously he is only thinking for himself. Dont say you love him so much. Ive done that, but guess what? It was all worth it to leave him

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Please don't do it! Don't! You don't want a man who is going to play "tit for tat" with you. If he thought you cheated on him he should have confronted you about it , not try and get revenge. And he lied to you and disrespected you in your home. I know it's hard to let go of that love but you will drive yourself craazyyyyy wondering what he's doing/going and who he's with. 
Trust me I speak from experience, I had an ex who sent nude photographs 3 months into our relationship to another woman while we was staying at my house, he was talking to her while he was laying up with me calling her baby etc. I took him back but I did NOT trust him and resented him for the longest time, and he ended up talking to other women a year later.
At the end of the day the decision is yours and yours alone but you sound like a sweet and generous woman, if you do decide to take him back at least take some time away from him to clear your head and give yourself time to heal. You won't be able to move forward in your relationship unless you are TRULY ready to forgive and forget and trust him.

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Dont do it leave him i was in the same boat in the past and i forgave him a few days later he pretended he was going to comit suiside so i would leave his life and even though he did that to me i think your bf did somthing way worce my ex lied about kissing a nother girl yours fucked a girl in your bed i feel like he will use you

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ALSO, I Live with him and my closet family is an hour away. I would have to quit my job and move back home if I was to leave him. And he said he knew what he was doing the whole time but he couldn't stop it. And that makes me wanna leave but then he says he can't imagine life without me and it's just so confusing. Without me he would be nothing. Wouldn't even have a pot to cook in. Why would he do this to me and himself?

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He claims he loves you so much he should've confronted you. But to cheat in YOUR house in YOUR bed is just disrespectful. Another woman shouldn't even be brought to your house if he is going to go out on you. Wow that's a tough one. I would honestly need space away from him, two days it's still so fresh.

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