Do you think if you live with someone and pay half the bills and put in most the work,all the cooking all the cleaning and buy the groceries, that you shouldn't have "say so" of what goes on in the house or around your kids bc it's not your name on the lease?

I have a problem with people drinking or smoking around my kids, and not just by the people I live with, our neighbors as well think they can come over everyday and chill in the living room and drink and smoke too..

I finally showed my royal ass yesterday and kicked some people out... and now I'm being called a pregnant hormonal bitch bc of it..

And sadly these are full grown adults 40yrs old and up..

Yet I'm only 26.. I've got a 10 yr old and a newborn coming home in just 2 days after I have my c-section. .. and i seem to be more responsible and concerned than any of them about how they as should act in front of children..

What should I do if I can't move for a few months?