Am I asking for too much ??

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Basically me and my partner had a rough start together all his 'girl friends' caused a hell of a lot of trouble between us and tried to come between us. Anyway since then he hasn't really spoken to them - until the past couple of weeks he's been getting angry about not seeing them or talking to them, I mean come on, what person in the right mind wants to speak to people or have anything to do with them if they've done nothing but cause trouble for you both?? 
We hardly ever do anything seperatley so we both come to the agreement - me go out with my friends =no boys involved Which I'm happy with other boys don't interest me. And he goes out with friends = no girls involved which he agreed with. But now all of a sudden he's changed his tune, he's threatening to cheat on me, he says he doesn't care if he hurts me etc etc. 
I told him in relationships you make sacrifices and agree on things, which he WAS happy with and so was I. 
I mean am I really asking for too much for the girls who caused trouble between us 99% of his female friends not to be involved ??

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He's threatening to cheat on you and your staying with him???

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Wtf he's threatening to cheat on you‽ that's so completely disrespectful. I'm sorry but I'd be dumping his arse & saying go have your fun, you won't be cheating on me and causing me hurt, I won't let you. If you won't take our relationship seriously & respect it and me, you don't deserve it or me. Bye bye.

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I'd dump him. Having kids together isn't a reason to stay together. Do you want your children growing up to see how he rests you and them thinking that behavior is okay? Sorry but I wouldn't be surprised if he's already cheated. Who theatens someone with that anyway? You can tell him to respect you until you're blue in the face; doesn't mean it's gonna happen. Clearly he has zero respect just by what he says. Why do either of you need to promise not to deal with the opposite sex when going out with friends? Isn't it a given that you wouldn't entertain the idea since you're both in a relationship? I question how committed he is to you. I personally don't understand why anyone choose to stay in such relationships. I'd rather be alone than be in a relationship with someone like that. Good luck. He sounds like a real jerk who has no regard for you or yalls relationship.

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Sounds like he is complacent with your love. Listen twice, speak once. If he is threatening to do those things he's probably already doing them. Get your affairs in order in case you do find out he's a piece of crap and need to leave. Best of wishes to you!

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Girl, he's already cheating. Now he isn't getting his fix, so he's threatening to do it publicly. Kick him to the curb.

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Regardless of what the conversation or argument was for him to threaten cheating on you I would leave him. Like seriously? "Go ahead and cheat, give me a reason to leave your pathetic ass." That would have been my response honestly. Children are never a reason to make yourself live in misery.

Am I asking for too much ??

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