Are gender reveal parties annoying?

ShelbyZee • 25, Instagram: ShelbyZee -Due January 12th with our first!
I was reading somewhere that majority of people are annoyed at gender reveal parties because it's not as big of a deal to others, but they feel obligated to come anyways. Is this true? I always thought gender parties were so cute. Even when I wasn't pregnant. I was planning on having one but I don't want to annoy anyone with it...
My own mom also said to not have one, she said people don't care as much as immediate family does.