More MIL drama 🙄

I honestly cannot stand my MIL 😭 She's so extremely controlling and always guilt trips my husband into getting her way. I don't fall for her tricks but he's sensitive and caring and it always works. We're both full time students, baby is due in the fall and she keeps looking for side jobs and volunteer programs for my husband to do. DH is working now but were in a situation where we don't have to work while were going to school and I'm so thankful for that because we will be able to share the responsibility of the baby while keeping up with school. Then my MIL insists he isn't doing enough and wants him to have another job (offering much less than he is making now) and volunteer for the hospital she works for. It makes me so angry because 1) she makes him feel inadequate and 2) I need help with this baby so I can continue to do well in school. She doesn't think about anyone but herself. She doesn't support us financially in any way and we don't live with her so I don't see how it's her decision to make at all. On top of it all, her motives are screwed up. She wants DH to volunteer with her hospital so she can keep manipulating him and she wants him to volunteer with her synagogue hoping then our daughter will go to preschool and worship there. Which is an extremely sore subject since I'm Catholic and we have been trying to decide how the child will be raised in religion if at all.