Been trying for 10 month.

So me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant for the past 10 months and still nothing. It's hard for me when I see all my friends having babies, I feel like it's almost my fault and now no longer want to even have sex at all. Has anyone else had this problem? I have friends that have said it took them years to get pregnant. Anyone else in the same situation as me or has a story of sucsess after years of trying