Throwing me under the bus 😔

Before I even start I just wanna let you all know that I am just venting.

So my husband keeps throwing me under the bus to his family. We have things we both agree on, and then when he runs it by his family he says "she thought that". 

One time last year before Xmas, I told him I desperately want a baby. Talked about it for over two weeks, when then he says "okay". And I say "are you sure?" He said yes. So I throw my pills away. We're going over to his hometown which is three hours away from where we live to visit his family. And we both ask for their opinion. Although I didn't agree I should go ask his parents for their opinion on if I should start my own family or not. I would like to think I know what I'm doing with my life. So we tell them, weekend is over. His family of course didn't think was "such a good idea, she needs to finish school first, you need to have a house" bla bla bla bla. But all these things being said behind my back. His mom texted him to call her BEFORE he gets home so I am not around. And then she tells him how much she is "against" me having my own family!!!!! Like wtf who do you think you are???? Anyways, after they talk he comes home and tells me, "this is what my mom did" immediately I got angry, and he said "yes you're right I don't know why she did that, it's not right of her to do that since we both went to her". So WE BOTH agreed she wasn't correct that she went behind my back since we both went to her to "ask" for her opinion. Then later that week he told his mom she shouldn't do this anymore because I think it's not cool. I as in I the wife. Not us, not him, but just me. I think it's not cool. 

Now, I have to renew my green card, and one the items I need to send to the government it's a affidavit letter. I thought I can use 4 people to help with that, 2 from my side my sister and my best friend, and 2 from his side, his sis and his best friend. My sister did the letter right away so I've been using her letter as an example to give to the rest of them to know what to write. Well, his sister basically copy pasted and reword some sentences. So I show him and he again AGREES with me, but he tells her "she thinks it's too similar do you think you can be more original". 

Like how the f do I make him understand to stop saying its me me me me every fucking single time when its something about BOTH of us!! 

I needed to vent. I'm so pissed off and disappointed at him right now 😡