🤔🤔🤔 I need advice on what to do!!!

So 6 months ago my boyfriend said we would be engaged within the next two months. That never happened coming up on 9 months. No he tells me it's scary and nerve wracking. He said he wanted to be engaged before he fought for his daughter because it would look better in court. I was okay with that and understood. Now he says he wants to wait until after. He's also had a history of lying, hiding things, and constantly checking out other girls like drooling and open mouth checking out. I'm so fed up and at my wits end! My baby passed away a little over a year ago and I don't have time for mind games. I fear I won't be able to handle my depression anymore.