Does your so do any nightime feeds?
Does your so do any nightime feeds? Or what does he do?
My so refuses to do night time feeds even when he was off work for 3 weeks. He does work full time but litterly most days are half days and some days he starts later which those days he didnt think to offer to do a feed and got like 12 hrs of sleep in. All i want help with is 1 night a week on his day off thats it so i can catxh up on sleep. He will do about 1 to 2 feeds and i mean just feed her i have to settle her back down which takes like 1 hr coz she can be hard to settle which is draining. I bath her and i feel like im doing it all. Ive asked for his help and support and he doesnt help where i need him to. Hell only help where he wants to. Our daughter is nearly 5 weeks old. Im struggling emotionally with this and feel like if im doing it on my own then i should just be on my own. This is making me resent him. I return back to work in 2 weeks as im self employed and my work load will increase each week from then on. I cant do both. I dont know how to handle this.
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