Am I bitter??

Question

I got married around 22, divorced finalized 1 year later and had a kid during that time.. I've had lots of failed relationships and the last time I had a REAL physical relationship was 2011 for about 1 year.. I've had few couple month flings and stuff since and now I'm just not wanting to be bothered.. I don't want to be bothered because lately nothing but 🐂💩 has been coming my way.. And I get super annoyed with ppl saying that I have such great "wife" potential and ppl trying to hook me up with any single males they know.. It annoys me because I'm still single😑😑.. 
Just recently, I was gonna go on a date with a guy and he requested that I NOT wear jeans but a dress and heels/flats.. I asked where we were going and the dude says a place comparable to hooters but it turns into a club after hours.. 😒😒.. I decided against it and said I started my cycle..

Now I have friends that are single and married and that doesn't bother me.. What gets under my skin is ppl telling me that I'd be a great wife and I can't even seem to date a decent guy.. If I lower my standards, I'd be dating a girl (no offense to anyone who likes women).. 
Am I bitter?? 🤔🤔

Answer

I was married at 21 and got divorced 1 1/2 years later, we had a wonderful baby from that relationship. It took me a few years to decide to work on me! Lost some weight, went back to school, and I had finally accepted that I was just fine with it being me and my son for the rest of my life. I didn't want to be bothered with a relationship or any drama, I was honestly happy alone. I had about a year left of school and decided to go on a date with a guy that I would normally never go for. I figured it was something to do on a Sat night lol. We have been together ever since. I worked full time, went to school ful time, and I was a single mom and he lived over an hour away. We are now married and have a beautiful baby girl. I guess what  I am trying to say is that I truly believe you have to learn to be happy by yourself and when the right person comes along you will know. By no means should you lower your standards. My husband was worth the wait

Answer

If you aren't feeling it then it isn't worth dating. When the right person comes along you'll know, until then there's nothing wrong with focusing on you and telling everyone else thanks but no thanks.

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