Is it bad??

My boyfriend is different he's not all about sex and I love it. But sometimes I just wish he'd want or desire Sex more than me because I feel like a freak or desperate when I ask to have sex. But he's really Not all that into it and we lost our virginity together quite recently. So is the sex bad??? Or??? Because he can't seem to come in me either but would rather wank???? Help please what do I do