5 hours a day feeding normal?

My LO is 12 days old now. I feel like I'm going crazy. I am feeding consistently daily between 4-5 + hours throughout the day. I see moms on here saying they feed every 2 hours and I'd kill for that amount of time in between. She is constantly eating and cries in between and nothing else we seem to do to calm her helps. My SO feels like a failure because he can't help calm her and I feel like she isn't getting enough even though she is peeing and pooping regularly. Am I normal in the amount of time you all spend feeding each day?