Married or very serious relationships ladies

And by very serious I mean y'all have been together as a couple for a year or more. Not this month bullshit.

Would it bother any of you if your SO was only on Instagram or his Snapchat when you're not around? My husband is always doing stuff like this and it really irritates me, but I also feel like maybe it shouldn't? Lately I have been a little more insecure just because I've gained weight but he calls me beautiful all the time and tells me I'm not as fat as I think I am and all this. But when we first got married I caught him asking for other pictures and shit which he has stopped I do know that. But now it just grinds my gears about this shit. Its like he needs to look at other woman or something idk.