What do I do? or What would you do (if it were you in my shoes)?

Question

Wanting to have an experience (such as having a boyfriend, having sexual intercourse and other couple stuff) but then I am too afraid to take chances (like might get unplanned/unwanted pregnancies) because it might ruin/delay my plans in life or my priorities such as my studies. 
UPDATE! Hehe
I got myself a boyfriend, we’ve been together for almost 3 months now. The sad thing is that, it’s a long distance relationship. And we have not met yet (we met in a dating app - 😊 don’t judge) but plans to very soon. 
How are you guys tho? Tell me all about your boyfriends/girlfriends!

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Depends on ur age. 
My advice. Don't give it to some guy who just wants to mess around. Sex should be special. 
That's just how I feel about it. 
I couldn't just sleep with anyone. I had to feel good about them I had to really like them to enjoy it

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If I were you I wouldn't. I'd just focus on my studies and start dating when I'm ready and old enough to get married 😬

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Sometimes, it is best to just take the chance you are given. Be smart and always use a form of birth control, but make sure to live and love each moment that is presented with you and your significant other.

Also, if the unexpected happens? You have two choices, either embrace the change and create a dream from it? Or abandon all to stay away from it.

At the end of the day, you choose what you want in life. :) So, choose wisely.

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Be responsible - use condoms and BC- you've only got this one life so ask yourself - when you're on your death bed will you regret the fear? You can have your cake and eat it too- just don't be stupid or unsafe and risky.

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literally, just do whatever you want. It's hard for people to make that judgment bc no one knows what your exact goals are in life, and no one knows how badly you want sex and a boyfriend, and if there are even any candidates to fill that spot. Just do you lol

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Birth control? Then you can have all of that without messing up your plans

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Condums..and have him tested for everything

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as long as you're safe you should be able to experiment how you want. get as educated as possible, get on any form of birth control and always use condoms if you're having sex. it's really easy to avoid pregnancy if you know what you're doing !

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That was very vague.. explain more?

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Why do you have even time to post such question then?

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