I really wish I wasn't judgemental 😳

Everytime I see posts on here that I definitely don't agree with like for example TTC in unfit circumstance, I feel so quick to judge. It's just how I am. I try to step back and ask myself, "why do I care?" "Does this affect me?" It honestly sucks 😕 I think Im more judgemental about things I've experienced, so then subconsciously I'm strying to "raise awareness" so the same thing doesn't happen to them. Ugh I hate it but I feel like I can't control how I feel.