Feeling stupid and like a vvhore ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

So my dumb a$$ cheated 2days after my period finished (21st....unprotected and pull out method) and i had sex with my boyfriend on the (22nd....came in me). We then got into an argument and had made up sex a couple days after

I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant and although its been on my mind my whole pregnancy right now its sticking n i keep trying to work out the possibility of who the dad is.....i honestly think the baby is my boyfriends and i would love it to be.....i made a mistake but i really do love my boyfriend and there is no excuse for my dirty work but i need a couple comments on who you guys think is the dad.

Please comment and don't judge me

PS

First&Last Day Of Period-14th-19th

Conception Date by Calculators-28th

I just really need your help guys

I feel so low and unworthy of love from anyone

Thanks for all replies and once i see them I'll upvote them

Update

I'm seeing the replies....really scared to tell my bf incase he leaves me

I don't have the money for a paternity test

One starts at $500 here where i live

Thanks for all replies

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Si

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50% chance it is either ๐Ÿ™ˆ If you haven't already told him I think you need to and get a paternity test. It is unfair to him raising a child who might not be his & also to your child they have a right to know who their real father/family is. I hope it is your boyfriend & you can move past this as a new family. Good luck xx

Ma

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Honestly there's really no way to tell 100%. Most likely it is your bf but you may need some DNA testing done

Wh

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I would say the father is your boyfriend since the other pulled out or at least the chance is a lot greater that it's him and I totally agree we all make bad choices and do dumb stuff sometimes live and learn and have a healthy happy pregnancy !! 

Le

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I say boyfriend.

Ka

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It's most likely your boyfriend's. It's a toss up though! My best friend had sex (while on birth control) with some guy and her husband around the same time and got pregnant. It was her husband's. Or at least that's how it's playing out. Haha 

Ch

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Did u tell your bf? If yes do a paternity test after. If not that's a hard one. 

Kr

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Walgreens has cheaper paternity test. No one can know for sure .

Th

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Boyfriend most likely. You usually don't ovulate until 3-5 days after your period. Hoping the best for you!

Sh

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Ahh I know this all too well! My second daughters father raised my first daughter from birth knowing she was not his for she is milato he is white but he was great about it, thennnnn he became a drug user and abusive so I left him. I was a mess and had gone to a party and slept with someone only a week after sleeping with my ex and 3 weeks later found out I was pregnant and my conception date fell right in between the week I had slept with both men. I told my ex and the other guy. My ex was reasonable mostly because he wanted control over me again and the other guy hit me with a I'm sterile, then an hour later said he would pay for an abortion then the next day said he wanted DNA. Needless to say no one showed for court the 3 times I filed for DNA and my ex signed the birth certificate and I have been raising both my daughters with my now fiance and my ex hasn't seen either kids in 9 months and that's OK. But you should be honest and up front because the trust always comes out and better to have it known now then after the baby gets attached possibly to the wrong man

As

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If you ovulated when you think you did then it definitely is your boyfriends. If the other guy pulled out not much got in there. Although it only takes one I highly doubt the sperm lived for 7 days....