So.. I'm about to be 21 this month and I honestly just wanna go out with my friends, have drinks and experience going to a male strip club for once in my my life

The problem that I have is that I have a boyfriend of 4 years.. I brought this up to him and he said he absolutely didn't want me going..

Now, he went to a girls strip club with his older cousins about a year ago without my knowledge.. I could tell by his face there was something wrong and I had to force it out of him.. He said he only stayed for 30 minutes and it wasn't great because there was just one girl there and nobody was really showing her attention. He said he could see how her face was kinda hurt..

Anyways, I feel like going to a male strip club is different from a female one, like more funny than serious.. And I don't feel it's fair he went and now he has a problem with me going. He also said if I go, he's gonna go to another one.

Thoughts??