Am I the only one ?

I hate falling in love because when you first meet the person you like, you are so overwhelm with emotions for that person and that spark for them is ignited. Like never ending phone calls, cute messages, going on endless dates. But soon it all stops because you are so use to that person and it feels more like a relationship duty rather then out of love. What's the point of falling in love when that spark will soon leave and the relationship feels more like a chore rather than something out of love :(