Umm what??

Ok so my mil and sil are throwing me a baby shower this weekend BUT I'm so annoyed with literally me doing everything. I'm providing the prizes for the games, I looked for the person making the cake(didn't pay), I paid for the invitations, and now they want my mom to let them use the games she used at the baby shower she made for me?! I might as well do another baby shower with my family and friends from home rather than my husbands family. I was going to tell them not to do it anymore but I already wasted money and time on it, I told them since the beginning of the pregnancy if they were going to throw me a shower it would be a good idea to buy stuff Since we found out like me and my mom did. They kept blowing me off when I would tell them and they had and have money to waste because they're constantly shopping and eating out when they both get food stamps. I don't want to tell my husband anymore because the last time I told him he got kind of down. I'm so annoyed 😔