TTC disappointment

Bella
So I'm currently 9DPO & I had my annual exam today. I asked them to give me a pregnancy test & it was negative. 😕😥😔 I'm sad & I've been having my normal symptoms of AF. tender breast started 2 days ago & I had some slight cramping after my pap but I'm sure it was due to that. I was really hoping/praying this was the month. Kind of tired of the disappointment 😔