Expectations

My boyfriend kinda has these "expectations" for me. Like he gets upset if I don't wake him up from a nap with a blowjob instead of how I wake him up with just a kiss. He gets upset that I don't initiate sex as much as he does. And he gets upset that I don't text him or call him enough or fast enough when we're not with each other, he makes me feel bad about it sometimes even though I constantly text him. But I just don't do those things. Would these things bother you or would you do these things for him all the time?