Unpopular opinion: Yourself. Can't help anybody if you don't help yourself first. It takes 2 seconds.

As cabin crew, please put yours on first. You can't save anyone if you're hypoxic and delirious, or passed out. Also please listen to the safety demo. 

Have you never been on a plane before? You put your own mask on and then help others around you. You won't be much help to your child if you're hypoxic. Though the odds of needing masks on a plane are very slim. 

These 2 don't compare at all lolOn an airplane you are suppose to put the mask on YOURSELF first. Only because if you pass out, how will you help your child put on the mask? So yourself first so your awake to save your kids as well.

It's always yourself. How can you help anyone else if you're starved from oxygen. This is literally stated in every emergency landing briefing before takeoff. 

Myself. I'm not much help to anyone if I'm dead. Then my kids. I like to think my husband can reach his own quickly without my help

I put child and remember now that the plane says you first lol

Since it is said before take off you put your own mask on before helping anyone else, I think at this point your point is moot. Sine the safety regulations are already in place. 

Put the mask on yourself first so that you are cognizant enough to help your children. Even if you put their mask on first and then you pass out, who is going to help them?

Any airline will tell you to place your own mask on first. You can't help your husband or your children if you pass out. But then after my own mask, I would help my children. Their father is an adult. He can put his own mask on.