BF doesn't want to "rush" marriage? 2ND UPDATE
So we just found out I'm pregnant on Monday and he just called me to talk about the baby. And he slickly mentions that he doesn't want to get married for a while. He doesn't think we should rush marriage now just because I'm pregnant. I feel like I just got slapped in the face. No because of wanting to rush we have been together close to a year. But seriously because he is basing OUR relationship of off the failing relationships around him. His sister just got out of a three year long relationship and married for a year. And my BF is convinced it's because they didn't wait long enough to get married. I'm okay with waiting but seriously I'm not about to wait three fucking years after having your kid just to get a shitty ring. He confuses the hell out of me especially when he wants us to buy a house next year. So he's ready for us to have a house together but not to get married or AT LEAST engaged. My family loves my BF but they don't approve of. E shaking up with him with no ring. What do I do?? What do you Guys think? And he did mention that he knows he wants to marry me but he thinks it's best to wait until we have been together longer.
Updated: when I said shitty ring I didn't mean the physical ring. I mean what the ring means loyalty, love etc. his cool with buying a house and making that commitment. He tells people that we are "basically" married but I can't at least get an actual ring for another three years. I don't care if he gave me a fruit loop it's the commitment at hand. I think that's why I'm mad. Because he says we are basically married now that I'm pregnant. Lol like no there is no basically.
UPDATE: We talked about it (or argued) he called his friend and his friend agreed with ... ME lol like any normal person would. I was at my parents house and wasn't home until today and guess what he says that what he said in facts doesn't make sense. And he said time didn't have to do with it. He said after his parents marriage failed he's scared to have a failing marriage too but he knows for a fact he wants to be with me and marry me no question. So we are gonna wait another year and see what happens but I'm happy :)
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