just a question

Me and my daughters dad, we are just friends with benefits, are daughter was never planned. We have went threw a lot of rough patches since she was born. But always pull threw and get along again in the end. So, it isn't a relationship, and after a huge huge fall out this last few weeks he called to my house last night to sort it out, but while he was there my friend from work (who's a male and I've known him years) called in with his girlfriend, now he's a very very loyal guy to his girl and she knows it. But he's a natural flirt. So we all decided to have a drink together, but once my male friend was drunk, he started to play fight and wrestle about with me, in front of his girlfriend and my daughters dad. For me, it was slightly awkward, as he kept taking it too far, even tho it was innocent drunken fun. His girlfriend found it funny, and so did my fella, (if you'd call him that) but she did say to him the next day she felt a little awkward and uncomfortable and slightly jealous, which she should have as he did go too far (he was so drunk) when they left my fella was all over me, actually, more than he's ever been. But when my male friend said his girlfriend was uncomfortable and sAid my guy looked it too, it has me paranoid what he's thinking of me. If he was thinking badly of me would he have been attentive  and loving to me like he was after they left?