Father asked me not to get pregnant
So I am 5w2d. I'm engaged, 33 years old, planned pregnancy, living in our home together (bought a house together), financially secure. I was talking to my dad today and he said something has been bothering him for a while. He asked me not to get pregnant till at least the wedding. (It's next October because of schedules and making sure we pay everything upfront rather than go into debt over a party). Told him it wasn't fair that he ask that of me. His reason was because it's not right to have a baby out of wedlock (he was pretty good with us living together) and that he doesn't want something to happen and I be left alone. Keep in mind, he actually likes my fiancé so it's not that. It just hurt so badly. I came close to saying "by the way... I'm actually pregnant".
I figured out already how I was going to surprise him. I've been so excited and now it crushed me. I wanted to celebrate this! A baby is a wonderful thing and something very much wanted. I know this is a long post, thank you for reading.
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