Nudess

I read a comment and was wondering:

If you send out nudes, should you just automatically expect for the guy to show his buddies?

My husband agrees that when you're in a relationship, you should trust your partner not to show any photos to friends that are nude or in a bra and panties. But apparently some people think its just a given that men show their friends and when you send nudes, you should expect your image to be passed around. I think that's bullshit