Q-help

So sometimes durning sex I feel like it just same old same old still feels good but honestly I don't feel connected to him 😒 but other time I do.. I love home very much but I'm not sure what to do about it I feel like we're just getting old for each other we tried doing different position but we always end but in the same one at the end 😞😞 anyone know what I can do to spice it up a little