Pain or Pleasure?

Question

I keep seeing "my momma didn't raise a quitter" or "I'm not a b*txh" when it comes to sexual things that your man likes but you don't...
I just kinda wanna give my opinion and see what everyone else thinks. I think sex should be pleasure-able. I should enjoy it. So, if a certain position or sex act is painful/uncomfortable... Im going to tell you to stop. I don't really see it as being a b*txh or a quitter. I shouldnt have to deal with an uncontrollable amount of pain during sex. I should enjoy it& if whatever youre doing is painful... Does it really make me a b*txh/quitter to as for you to stop? I guess I just don't understand this idea...

Answer

I've honestly tried to grin and bear it, and it hurt SO BAD. Bad enough to wear I ended up crying and my S/O told me to NEVER do that again. Your man won't want you to have a painful experience, trust me. You're not a wimp. EVERYONE has boundaries, no matter how tough they act.

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Definitely not. If your uncomfortable or don't like a position then you have no obligation to do so. Any guy who ever told me I'm a quitter for not wanting to do a position would immediately get thrown out and never invited back lol. This is my body if I don't want to do a certain position because I'm uncomfortable I won't. That concept of being a quitter is really out there in my opinion.

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But see it isnt the men that say things like this- its woman! Like I say my man is sturing my guts& he needs to stop and then someone will say "well my momma didnt raise a quitter" or something that like. What I dont understand is WHY they feel like them saying "No" or "stop" makes them a quitter. Theres been times where ive gotten off, im done, its starting to hurt and I take it bc I want him to get off but im not going to sit through 30 minutes of him straight pounding my cervix if it hurts me..

Pain or Pleasure?

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