Being called Fat.....

Bri • Blessed❤
I'm 10W 5D. For the last week or so there is this much "larger" lady at my job we never really speak much , but starting last week she began saying little things to me . First she asked me if I was pregnant my response to her was no , for the simple fact that I don't feel it's anyone's business yet this is something I want to keep to myself for as long as I can until I feel secure , my husband and I have suffered several losses. 
Today she comes up to me and says u remember what I asked u last week , well I asked u that because your getting big and your face is getting fat as well, maybe u shouldn't eat as much . And I'm stuck looking as her like lady you are BIG AS A HOUSE yourself. But instead I just laughed it off , honestly speaking it really does hurt my feelings because like I said I'm not ready to share it with the world and b4 getting pregnant I wasn't the weight I desired to be I started at 165 I'm 5'3 medium built my ideal weight is 145. . But I just find it so FUCKING rude to tell someone there getting fat I'm sure everyone is aware of  there of body and if there gaining weight I don't need you coming up to me making me even more self conscious then I already am. My mother always told me if you have nothing nice to say keep it to yourself 😤🖕🏾.