is it bad that I don't like anal with my boyfriend?😒

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Idk if it's just me but we tried it twice and both times felt like I was gonna shit myself! I'm 24 and trying new things but when I was a teenager I always thought that was so gay for a guy to ask! Now it's kinky and I see they like trying new things but no matter how WET he gets his tip of his penis it still hurts ! Whyyyy and what tips do you guys have??

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Your anus isn't meant for a penis. If you don't like it, that's fine and normal. You don't have to do things you don't like.

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Same though. But no matter what you do the first few minutes will feel like that. I can't remember the exact advice but I think your supposed to push out when he first goes in. Look up "tips for anal" on google and click on the sheknows.com link. It's got some good advice especially on the second page.

Also there's this great lube specifically for anal that is supposed to work wonders. It's called "Pjur Back Door Relaxing Anal Glide Lubricant." There's also a thing called "RelaxXXX Watermelon Anal Spray" which relaxes the user without making them go numb.

I'm really hesitant about anal as well that's why I've done all this researchXD So don't feel pressured to do it or enjoy it. It's all up to what you like:D

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If you don't like it just don't do it

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Try butt plugs first. Prepare urself. Use lots of lube.

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Don't feel bad at all. I talked with my guy and let him know the stipulations of being sexual with me. Just sit down with him and talk. It's ok. Sex needs to feel good for both not one giving up pleasure for the other one. You can stimulate your anis with fingers and save the actual penetration for the vagina. Just take your time.

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Anal isn't for everyone

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I feel you.

is it bad that I don't like anal with my boyfriend?😒

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