My boyfriend hates my job

(Wrighting anonymously because I'm very very shy)

I mean hates it

I'm a cna .. i clean otherr people's butts for a.living... its pretty hard work I don't come home until late and I'm always in a bad mood rightfully so I dead lift 5-7 people 200 pounds each ..Im in pain alot..

So for the last two days my bf has not said two words to me which make me feel like a bad person...

Finally he said he want me to quit my job..

I never not worked I always made my own money in some way

Now he just want me to be mom or

Be a painter

Do something that make me happy

I worry about money all the time but he said he dosent need my help...

He keeps saying do what you want ...

But I only do what I'm told..

I love him and want only good things for him and I ....

I have been crying all day...