older mums

Hi I turn 39 at the end of the month. 
Me and my hubbie are TTC and it's coming up to a year now. He's had his sperm test and all is normal 👍I've had fertility bloods done and all is well, I also have an appointment with the fertility consultant in November to check everything out.
My question is how long did it take you to conceive?  Being older I know it can take longer to conceive but also there are risks connected to be an older mum, for the baby.
I'm just feeling a little low about it and just desperate to get our family started.
Thanks is advance for you time