does he love me?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been dating since May. So not very long. I'm typically the type of person that takes a while to have deep feelings for someone. But with my current bf I knew I loved him very soon. To make a long story short::  after a couple weeks of contemplating it I decided to tell him I loved him. I was Leary of it because I feel like the man should say it first but I was 100% sure I loved him & I really felt like he was in love with me as well and had basically told me several times without actually saying I love you. 
So I told him I loved him and he got kinda teary eyed and acted really touched by it and also told me he loved me too. (He's a softy)
So that happened in June or July, I can't remember exactly. BUT to this day when he says he loves me, he mutters it. Like mumbles. It's like he's not confident in saying it. 
I know this man has deep feelings for me. He's talked about us building a house together, our future kids, etc. 
We can be in a phone conversation talking normally and I'll tell him I love him and when he says it back i can't even understand him half the time because he just mumbles. WTF DOES THAT MEAN. We've been saying I love you for a solid 2+ months now. And only a handful of times has he said it with confidence.

Answer

Actions speak louder than words. Are his action at least towards you make you feel loved and appreciated?  My guy isn't the big on public displays of affection. In private we are great. If we are out he doesn't say this is my girlfriend ___ he just says this __. And I mentioned it yesterday. And his response was don't I treat you like a girlfriend, am I not here with you and make the effort. Don't actions speak louder than words. Don't my actions show you that I love you? And I just sat there stunned. I didn't know what to say and sat there. In silence. And he got worried that I was silent and all I could say was I was just stunned and didn't know what to say. He's not a big communicator. Hard for him to open up. Hope things get better for you. Men tend to be creatures of very little words. If they are stressed out they tend to not want to burden you with their problems. And can't handle a lot at the same time. We think the worst and over think. And all they are thinking of is a big project st work or things they have to do. Give it some time and be ther for him.

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He sounds nervous, not uncertain.  He will get more confident the more he says it.  Try to be patient and let him get to that place.  And keep telling him you love him!

Answer

TBH maybe he feels like he doesn't want to catch feelings just yet or get too comfortable saying it bein that it's the early months of your relationship or he's just afraid of people hearing him say that he loves you

does he love me?

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