did my boyfriend slut shame me?

So I was just talking to my boyfriend on skype and we ended up talking about friends with benefits and he brought up how I had had one and I was saying it was odd to me and I wouldn't do it again and he then insisted that the last guy I was with was also a friends with benefits. This is right after he said how bad it is to have casual physical relations. With this last guy we never officially were boyfriend and girlfriend but we did go on dates and tell each other we had feelings for each other and I told my current boyfriend that and he still insisted it was a second friends with benefits. While I wouldn't want another one I don't think it's a wrong thing to do and I was kind of upset that he insisted I had had two when he had just talked about how bad they are. What do you all think?