I don't orgasm

Do some of you struggle with never orgasming? We've been having sex for 2 years, and don't get me wrong, I always feel good, but I've never had an orgasm. We can do lots of foreplay before sex and it doesn't happen. This leaves me feeling unsatisfied after sex sometimes feeling like I need more. My husband is starting to think he's not doing something right. ( he doesn't have a small dick) am I doing something wrong? Also, we always have to use lube. Even with foreplay I can't get wet enough for him to stick it in. What's wrong with me? 😔