Did you find out the gender ?

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My SO doesnt want to find out the gender and he is very serious about it. He wants it to be a suprise till the end. I dont know how i feel about it.

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I would like to find out to make it more real and feel more bonded. It's my first so it doesn't feel very real. Also I've heard stories about how gender disappointment can be harder to deal with along with the trauma/hormones of labor and delivery and it makes sense to deal with that early if possible... I don't know how or if I'd feel disappointed either way but it's a thought anyway

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I definitely need to know. My husband says it'll be fun to wait to find out, but I'm so not good with the waiting aspect. I want to have everything planned - nursery, name, clothes, etc. I also have my heart set on a boy so the sooner I find out, the sooner I can accept which gender it is. I won't be disappointed with a girl whatsoever, but it'll be harder for me to decide on a name I like!

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I am way too much of a control freak to not find out lol

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We found out with our first, but this time my partner wants to keep it a secret until birth.
At first I wasnt sure, but then I thought of the moment when it'll be my hubs saying "its a ____!" And it'll be a precious (almost tv like) moment. I am very excited to not know now! 😊

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