I can't be physical?! Help!

Question

So my bf and I have been together for about a year now. He wants me to give him hand jobs and blow jobs... And I tried giving him a hand job only once and I was SO grossed out I only touched him for like 10 seconds. Sex doesnt gross me out. Just the thought of giving him a hand job or blow job... I really don't know what to do. And it's not him either! I feel like if I was dating anyone I would be the same way... I dont know what to do. He told me we can "work on it" but just the thought of me doing that grosses me out a lot and makes me feel nauseous too. 😷🍆❌

Answer

Don't do it if you really don't want to. If you force yourself to do it then I think the experience won't be enjoyable for either of you. Do things that make you feel comfortable, maybe you'll open up to the idea when you're a little more active.

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Never heard this before .like giving hand jobs turn me on really...as far as blow jobs I'll do that but nutting in m mouth is a no...do you like to be fingered or ate out? Or is it just returning the favor? Are you scared of choking?

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There's nothing wrong with pleasing your man . It shouldn't be gross to you , but if it is that's okay , your just not comftorable yet . My first I didn't do it much , I barely touched him . I would fuck but that's about it . The second one I was a lot more comfortable with my sexuality . Blowjobs are easy , it's just like a lollipop 🍭 . Your boyfriend would really enjoy it , and grabbing their manly area , or just even stroking them with your hand , makes them feel like you want them . It'll make your sexy life better girl . You should try it , don't be so nervous .

I can't be physical?! Help!

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