Feel so alone-woman problems

Anyone else feel like they've dealt with gyno issue after issue : ( I just am feeling so anxious and upset that so many women seem to function so normally and just when I think everything is fine something else goes wrong or I need another test, procedure, surgery. Cysts abnormal bleeding utis abnormal pap I think I'm just tired and I haven't even started trying to have a baby yet...anyone else that can relate?