Does anyone else get annoyed when someone asks you if you're happy with the gender of the baby?

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When I had my daughter, it didn't bug me so much, but I'm starting to get annoyed right now with my second. Any time I tell someone I'm just having 2 (which really doesn't feel like a small family to me; I was an only child), people get all concerned with "what if it's another girl?" like I NEED to have one of each gender. My husband and I want two kids whether it's 2 girls or a girl and boy.

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Nope because we don't find out the gender so I don't have to deal with people and their opinions!

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Yes, everytime anyone finds out we're having our 3rd son they say things like "Another boy?! What, are you trying to make a soccer team??!!" Even doctors and midwives have been saying it and I feel it's offensive and disrespectful to say sarcasm like that in my opinion. We wanted another BABY, we're happy regardless and we've always wanted 3 kids. My mil keeps saying "Oh I bet you'll be trying again for a girl!" (No, we wont be), and my own mother's reaction was just as offensive: We found out the gender but that day was so hectic that by time we finally got home and got everything done I just crashed into bed from exhaustion. I called my mother the next day to let them know the gender and her reaction was "Oh, yet Another boy, so THAT'S why you didnt call yesterday" in this monotone flat voice like the baby suddenly had less value all because he had a dick. I was so angry and upset. 
WE are really looking forward to meeting our new beautiful son, even if everyone else around us is acting like it's nothing to look forward to, fuck em. (Pardon the french)

Does anyone else get annoyed when someone asks you if you're happy with the gender of the baby?

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