A few days ago I made a post asking for peoples help and support. I made it very clear before starting my rant that I did not want ANY negative or rude comments. My post was about me not wanting to breast feed and my SO being super unsupportive about it. (Don't start a discussion about it, that isn't the point of this post)

I had a few people who we're helpful and gave me good advice (thanks guys ❤) I had others who agreed with my husband. Which is totally fine as well, we all have different opinions. As long as you aren't ignorant about it anyways. I also had some people comment and ask a little more about my story. Like "what is my reason for not wanting to breast feed?" I had no problem answering this, I simply said I suffer from really bad anxiety and I know it would be too much for me. Well that's where all the negativity started.......

People we're saying I was selfish.. An unfit mother.. Putting my baby at such a high risk.. And that they actually feared for my child safety and well being.... All because I didn't want to breast feed.

THIS GOES OUT TO ANYONE OUT THERE WHOS QUICK TO JUDGE OTHERS JUST CAUSE THEY HAVE A DIFFERENT WAY OF PARENTING. But this why breast feeding would be too much for me...

I lost my virginity to a guy who date raped me when I was 13 years old. I'm 19 now. Ever since I don't like showing off my body. I suffer from awful public anxiety. I hate people staring at me. My SO is the first person I've managed to have sex with completely naked. My pregnancy was hard enough due to people staring cause well I'm pregnant. I would have a panic attack every time my doctor went to have a look at my vagina. It was not a fun experience. I've had a lot of counciling done over the years to get a grip on my anxiety but yunno what.. Only time can heal me now. I have taken care of my self through out my pregnancy so there's no reason I'm an "unfit mother" the whole breast feeding thing just isn't for me.

The whole point of this post is to make you people realize it isn't okay to be so quick to judge. You don't know what that person has gone through or what they are going through right now. Everyone has a reason for something like why they're using cloth diapers instead of disposable ones, one brand of bottles over the next, or choosing to formula feed over breast feeding.

I shouldn't have had to post such a personal story out in public but if it will make you people stop and think before you comment such negative things then I'm okay with what I did. I just don't want someone to go through such tears like I did cause people are Inconsiderate and ignorant.

Just stop and think please 💜