I have a (secret) boyfriend

So I have strict parents and they won't let me date (I'm 17 but I'll be 18 in January) so recently I've been talking to this guy and he's basically everything I want in a boyfriend but he lives 6 hours away and is two years older than me but I REALLY like him. I've online dated before but I honestly feel like he's the one (yes I know it sounds stupid because I'm only 17). My mom is a Jehovah's Witness and I am too but my dad isn't but my mother wants me to date someone who's also a Jehovah's Witness. My boyfriend is religious like me but he's not a jw and I'm scared that if I open up to me parents and tell them about him they will hate me but I also hate lieing to them because I really want to make a future with this boy. Btw I have told my parents before that I was talking with a guy I relly like and they freaked out and made it a big thing saying he's going to get me pregnant or and std. so I'm scared to lose my parents but I don't want to lose my boyfriend either please help!!!!!