Counseling?

Question

Does relationship counseling really work? My SO and I have been arguing a lot lately and he says it's because of my attitude and I need to change. Well, I just feel like our relationship has gotten a little blah lately. I want to be how we used to be. Do you suggest we do counseling? I doubt he'll do it but if he won't I will.

Answer

I think it's worth a shot. If it works is kinda up to you both. You both can go but if you don't work the steps like the therapist gives you then there's no chance it'll work.

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Yes it helps but try going to different counselors also read secrets of happily married husbands/ wives and five languages  of love

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Even individual counseling could help, I was struggling a lot w/ jealousy of my husband's ex (not worried about them getting back together as she is a lesbian but more him catering to her needs & wants over ours when it comes to his son) I spoke to my therapist about my frustration of him defending his ex when she would change plans last minute or bail on something she was going to do 4 my stepson & my therapist said "Have u thought that maybe he's not actually defending her but instead defending his choice of her as a partner?" I was like "Whhhaaaaatttt!! OMG! That explains sooo much!!" My point is a counselor/therapist can help u see things in a different way & that can be so helpful when u r struggling w/ certain things in a relationship. They can also validate feelings you've been having so u know what's important enough to talk to your SO about, my hubs also sees an individual therapist & he's gotten insight into a lot of things too.

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