Is my friend being a total *****?

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Her SO just got back from the military to visit for 2 weeks. They hadn't seen each other for 6 months. But everytime I ask that we should hang out or do something she always says to make sure my SO comes with me too.
And she's always saying that she wants alone time with him like to rub it in my face to not come around and see him. He's my friend, too. It just seems like now that her SO is home she doesn't want me around. But if he does something to annoy her or make her mad she comes running to me to go pick her up right away.
Idk am I overreacting?

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She hasn't seen him for 6 months!! Is completely reasonable that she wants to spend time with him now that he's home instead of leavinf him to see you.

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She hasn't seen him for 6 months and he's only there for 2 weeks....

You're being selfish and kind of rude. Let them have their time together. 
My husband is military and when he came home from deployments I didn't do anything without him for months. I don't care if anyone thinks it's annoying or selfish, he is my husband and I will spend all the time I want with him.

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When husband came back from deployment my husband and I spent every second we could together. He was gone 18 months and I missed him so badly. I think you're the one that's out of line to be honest. Give them space. When they're ready they'll call

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You're completely overreacting! He's only home for 2 weeks and she should be spending all her time with him and making the most of it!

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You're overreacting. Try to do things like double dates or whatever to hang out with both of them and then you can "have her back" when he leaves again. They miss eachother and you can see her all the time! How she's acting is normal.

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What's wrong with double dates? And why can't she actually spend the two weeks with him? It's only two weeks. If roles were reversed, how would you feel if you hadn't seen your so in 6 months?

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Yes you are overreacting. She is in a relationship with him, not you.

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I think you might be over reacting. Double dates are a ton of fun and don't leave anyone feeling like a third wheel. Is there a reason why you don't want to bring your partner along?

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You're being kind of selfish. It's her SO and she hasn't seen him for 6 months, so why should she want to share that time with anyone else. And asking her to bring your SO with you? Why is that such a bad thing? Maybe she doesn't want her man's company to include him and two women, or perhaps you've done something before to make her uncomfortable with just you being around her man. But no she's not being a bitch...at all.

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So what I gather is that he's on his 2 week R&R after 6 months of his deployment. And your mad she only wants to spend that 2 weeks with him? I'm also taking that it's a 12+ month deployment. Your overreacting. When my DH comes back from a 4-6 month I just want to spend time with him only.

Is my friend being a total *****?

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