Husband help with costs?

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Does your husband help/buy things for your child/ren?

My so and I have a daughter and another on the way but he NEVER buys anything or help finacally with anything our eldest needs like clothes ect and now again with this bump he hasn't bought one item of baby essentials. I have had to buy everything and dos so with our eldest to or they would have nothing. He doesn't seem interested at all just concerned about himself.

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This is weird to me. As husband and wife my Husband and I have joint accounts and all money is considered "ours". Now that we have our daughter I'm a stay at home mom and it hasnt changed at all. We are a family and no matter if we are both working or one is the stay at home parent, money is shared.

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If you're married why don't you have a single budget or separate with a plan of who pays for what?

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If my husband did this, we would only have one baby and not be married. I feel this is unacceptable and you should talk to him about it immediately, unless this is something you're ok with and can handle 2children on your own financially.

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If this is your first marriage separate accounts are totally weird! If I was divorced and remarried I'd never combine accounts tho. My husband (my HS sweetheart) has always provided for our kids. And we were kids when we started having them ourselves. He sounds incredibly immature. If I was in this situation and I felt he was smart and capable I would work this issue out. If you are are going to be held fully responsible I would strongly consider my alternatives. If he is an idiot I'd get out and make a better future for myself somewhere else. If I decided to leave I would set myself up and choose the timing to be right before just jumping the gun. Good luck

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Where's his money go? Sounds fishy

Husband help with costs?

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